Waldef’s face was the faithful interpreter
of the inner man and gave
convincing evidence of the indwelling of the Holy Spirit inhabiting
his heart. It was thin, but fair except where ruddy colour infused his
cheeks, soft as doves. His handsome white hair was in keeping with
his reverend and religious character. His appearance showed grace
infusing his
spirit with happiness and exultation;
it expressed the fact that the lord treasured
him, and induced all who
saw and spoke to him to hold him in affectionate reverence.(1)
Waldef (Waltheof) was the son of Earl Simon of Northampton and
Matilda, the great niece of William the Conqueror.(2) He was probably
named after his grandfather,
Waldef, earl of Northumbria, who was accused in 1076 of conspiring against William
I (1066-87) and executed for treason. Matilda later married Earl David of Huntingdon,
the future king of the Scots (1124-53), which meant that Waldef was later raised
at the royal court of Scotland. It was here that he met Aelred, later abbot of
Rievaulx.
As a boy, Waldef showed signs that he was destined
for the religious life: whereas his brother ‘mounted his
hobby-horse like a charger, seized a stick and brandished it like
a lance, and played soldier with the rest of the boys, pretending
to be the castellan of imaginary castles’, the young Waldef built toy
churches from wicker or stones ‘and with hands stretched out would pretend
that he was the priest saying Mass.’ (3) Waldef
later entered the Augustinian priory at Nostell, near Pontefract, where he
held the office of sacrist. He later became
prior of Walter Espec’s Augustinian foundation,
Kirkham Priory. It was during this period that Waldef, was allegedly so impressed
by the Cistercian
way of life that he decided to convert and join the White Monks. Waldef entered
Warden, a daughter-house of Rievaulx, but
spent some time at Rievaulx c. 1143-8, probably in 1147. This was by no means
an easy transition and Waldef faced moments
of great doubt:
It seemed to him that the food and drink were tasteless,
the clothing
scratchy and cheap, the manual labour hard, the vigils and chants
burdensome, and the tenor of the whole Order too austere … he debated quitting the Cistercians and turning back to the canons.(4)
The napping abbot
Abbot Waldef was, evidently, prone to take a nap whilst riding his horse, ‘Brother
Grizzel’. On such occasions the horse would pick his steps carefully
and slowly, lest he should trip, but once the abbot was awake he would
gallop swiftly, overtaking other steeds.
Following Waldef’s death, the horse was distraught and simply wasted
away through sadness.
[Jocelin of Furness, Life of Waldef, abbot of Melrose, ch. 21: 76].
Fortunately God responded to Waldef’s cry for help and freed
him from this ‘temptation’.
Thereafter he found the burden light and completed his probationary period.
In 1148 Waldef was sent to lead David of Scotland’s foundation
at Melrose,
a daughter-house of Rievaulx. He presided as abbot until the 3 August 1159,
when ‘the
divine clemency sent an angel to snatch him from prison.’ (5) Waldef
was at first buried at the entrance to the chapter-house at Melrose, ‘the
womb of the Mother of all’, (6) a spot
which he himself had selected, but his remains were later translated to the
church.Following his death Waldef
was celebrated
as a saint, although he was never formally canonised. On two occasions his
tomb was opened before witnesses who testified to the incorruption of his body,
first
in 1170 and again in 1206. However, by 1240, when all the remains of abbots
buried in the chapter-house were relocated to a different area of the building,
Waldef’s
bones had turned to dust; a few small bones and teeth that remained were kept
as relics. Waldef’s life was written c. 1210 by Jocelin of Furness,
who was commissioned by Abbot Patrick of Melrose (1206-7).(7)